How To File A Case Against Someone Anonymously

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  1. EagerForInfo

    EagerForInfo Gold IL'ite

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    My husband has been sending his parents crores and crores of money. Fine it’s his parents. But creating a havoc at home everytime the greedy wheezles ask for money is wrong. Can I file a case against them so government can investigate what they are doing and they will stop harrassing ? It is not fair they are ruining my kids lives by controlling their son like a puppet. This is my life too. Of course I contemplating divorce but I would like to file a case against them anonymously. They are known for harrassing people but no one has every taken any action on them so far.
     
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  2. MalStrom

    MalStrom IL Hall of Fame

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    What would be the basis of your case?
     
  3. lavani

    lavani Platinum IL'ite

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    you cannot do that. this is where i have been telling you multiple times. this is not movie. you can only file for domestic violence. after you serve him papers, then he cannot touch even single dollar.
     
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  4. EagerForInfo

    EagerForInfo Gold IL'ite

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    Yes but I want to file a case against the parents too. Let’s see if controlling them will improve the atmosphere at my home.
     
  5. MalStrom

    MalStrom IL Hall of Fame

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    You need to stop wasting your time trying to play games.
     
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    chanchitra Platinum IL'ite

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    It will not.
    Your husband is a psychopath
    Narcissist

    You are wasting your life with him
     
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    beautifullife30 Platinum IL'ite

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    OP,

    You are either scared to confront your husband, or take a divorce, or file a compliant against him even when he raises hand against you.

    This feeling of not being able to do anything to him coz you are scared is making you feel very angry and frustrated and you are trying to take it out on people who are indirectly causing these issues.

    Yes, you in-laws might be a blight on earth and enabled all those fights in your family. But the ENABLER is still YOUR HUSBAND and not them.

    Had he wanted, had he been a better person he would have stood up for you against them. He would have done something before for you. HE DID NOT. Which goes to show that he is the root cause of all your problems.

    There might be a thousand people to create a fight between you too. But if you and your husband had a strong relation, then none of it would have mattered. But you dont and he is not a good person based on all your previous threads and his reactions.

    So stop going behind people who are indirectly involved. Filing a case on them might just let you take the edge off your anger or frustration but it would not make an iota of difference in the way your husband is. Inturn you would just end up making your life more difficult for you and the kids.

    Take a stance now - do you want to live with him? Then make sure you are ok being the doormat that you are now. If you hate this life, then get out of there and start building your life anew. Build your confidence so you can take the right measures not hasty ones such as this.
     
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  8. DDream

    DDream Finest Post Winner

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    This is exactly the reason why I suggest you therapy/ counselling. You need a specialist who is expert in NPD/ psyco abuse victim therapy. When one is treated this way, they loose confidence/ esteem, & end up turning into a bitter/ negative person. Also, there are many health/ mental issues waiting due to stress. Please take multivitamines to support your body.

    You have only two options, either get out or make peace with it. But you have not decided what to do and appears so confused.
    Thats why you need professional help to heal you and gain clarity.

    I have mentioned it many times, but you seems to ignore it. But I wish I could help you. Dont waste time on impossible things than investing it on your life.
    I have noticed manytimes that wives, mostly victims of bad treatment by h, blame someone else( here PILs) or black magic or anything else. The problem here is the abuse from your h. Please worry about things you can control. I dont think court allows anonymous filing to sue your PILs.
     
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  9. lavani

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    I DO NOT THINK YOU ARE READY FOR DIVORCE.

    YOU NEED THERAPY AND MEDICATION FOR SOME MONTHS BEFORE ANY LIFE DECISION.

    STOP WASTING TIME ONLINE.

    GO TO YOUR INTERNAL DOCTOR FOR SEROTONIN MEDS IF SHE GIVES. GO FOR THERAPY.
     
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    Hi,
    Does anybody know of a good counsellor in Chennai ? or online counselling ?
    I am looking for something affordable.
     

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