My child used to go activities like swimming, dancing before pandemic started. Later on virtual life she lost interest in the dance class. Said no for it. We thought maybe a phase, stopped the class. Later we encouraged her to take up virtual music class she did 7-8class then said no. Again we didn't force her. Now she doesn't want any summer virtual classes too. But wanted arts class we enrolled her. I tried asking you can go to any class you like. She says no to anything else, if we tell her to take up any other class kiddo throws a fit. Since we believe in gentle parenting we don't force her without her willing. I feel bad and low, when I see & hear other kids of her age are doing back to back classes dance, music, instruments, performing arts, foreign language, spelling bees, martial arts,Russian math etc. My child says "its holidays, I want to relax, enjoy, play". Daily she reads a lot, paints draws and watch tv,iPad. Though she is good in academics I'm worried she isn't learning anything new, unlike the peer group which is running with additional classes on back. How to encourage her to take up extracurricular activities?