Hello ladies... I took the guidance from this platform in the past and even others threads gave me insights about dealing with people around me. For the current scenario. Everything is going well .. not bad kind of. No talking regularly with in-laws. Peace. Mil treating me better.(because she was treated badly last time with co-sis ). She is married to dh’s Younger brother. My husband does so much for his family , sponsored his brothers study and spend half of his marriage expenses. Co- sis had good relationship with in laws in the starting .. she was their puppet.. then her relation ruined. I had a different thread where I mention this. So when she had better relation with mil, she used to criticize me calling relative for everything.. even before marriage she started complaining about me. Then her relation spoiled with mil , she treated mil like a maid and still complaining during her delivery. She went to India and bad mouthing about mil visiting neighbors. And in return I got a better version of my mil. When their relation got spoiled co- sis turned to me and tried to share things with me, then slowly whenever we met or talked she started talking like she was asking bol about money he send to in laws and he said don’t worry whatever they have ultimately it ours. At another incident she said bil got in Laws house and spend in furnishing it. In reality my husband bought that house and paise more than half of installments and latter bil started paying when he started earning. For furniture part bil doesn’t have this much income at that time so he can not take that much expense alone. She also told in between talks saying when they will move to India they are not going to buy another house.. without any relavent conversation. For this I said even I did my said my di for buying another house for India. What should be my take for such things she is telling me. She is giving me clues . Should I talk to her husband and in laws in a joint meeting or should I talk to relTives about it and let the talk move to her, in this way I will Let others know what she is doing as she does with me in the past on false propaganda. She talked about me to relatives when I delivered my baby and she was here. I feel like I should confront her in front of family. Or should I talk to in laws and let them do rest of the work since it’s a chance for mil too. She talked to neighbor about mil last visit at my place and Fights mil created between me and dh which actually never happend and I never said that to her . She falsely accused mil to doing it because she has bad relation with mil now and she want to show that mil is still doing these things with me too . Should I talk to mil about it. I am done with being civil. Please guide .