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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by tanu khurana, May 19, 2010.

  1. maya69

    maya69 Gold IL'ite

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    Dont know how to convince dh...

    But when life's daily routine gets me down my coworker says to resort to humor to atleast lighten the mood.....atleast your own occasionally.

    For example....I grumble within that I have to get up and make coffee for all at breakfast and evening after work. and it has to just right. The other day I decided to accept the fact and told everyone....resident barrista is here..would you like latte or cappacino? whole or lowfat milk. It put a smile on mine and dh's face and lighten the mood instead of the grumble in me.

    Maybe you can do the same with your 24/7internet cafe? Any lunch break at the cafe? Can I interrupt the resident IT guy who is has gotten married to the PC w/o the knowledge of the first wife...:) dont know if your dh will get the humor when he is such defensive mood.

    Just a thought.....I know it wont convince your dh.
     
  2. Amruta7

    Amruta7 New IL'ite

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    Try to keep quite for few days or don't talk with him:shhh:, let's see any changes will come.Another idea try to pretend like as you are not feeling well and see is if there is any movement in him.
     

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