How to change my husband's opinion for non conservative dressing.

nikkita · Feb 10, 2008

i raelly liked the [posts of ria sunitha and preetho.so preeti dere r sumthings dat u shud consider........1-don't wear those dresses even in his absence........i mean i think sumwhere down the line we do feel guilty of hiding sumthing(wats the fun in that),2-try 2 keep urself in his shoes u might not be liking sumthing about him........wat if he does dat on ur bak,3-look at the brigter side this shows he is possesive and caring..and how many women get such husbands yaar,4-the most important........try 2 be creative like wearing skitrs and kurtis,trousers,loose tshirts look really cool in summers,u can wear sporty reebok pyjamas,and wat not if u try 2 b innovative.

geethasundaram · Jun 3, 2011

Hi Preethi,

Instead of argueing with your husband, you try to wear different dresses in front of him in home itself

Try to wear low hip saree in homes that is more attactive than any other dresses. Definately he will praise you and he will allow you to dress anything

SallyR · Jun 3, 2011

We only have 1 life...wear what you like and enjoy wearing it! I think once in a while it’s ok to wear something for our other half but to change our complete dress style for another is difficult. You wear what you like, let him wear what he does. That’s my policy anyway!

Priya16 · Jun 3, 2011

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zipzipzoomzoom · Jun 4, 2011

hydgrr said: ↑

I dont understand Jasmine....wht do u mean by ur post...but i also feel sometimes to look good....and if something fits me correct why should i buy a looser version and say its my conservative dressing...wht sense it makes if size 2 fits but i take size 8 or 10 and wear them...we look bad if we dont wear our correct sizes...and suppose ur in US, how am i supposed to wear saree to work daily...i dont get ur point at all
-Priya
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What about wearing something that is "form-fitting" rather than something that shows every nook and cranny of your body.

This is coming from a 30 year old born and raised here.

At work, and in life in general, I noticed that people subconsciously treat you with more respect if you wear something "form-fitting" rather than something tight fitting.

Example of form-fitting:

button down shirts
JCPenney : I 'Heart' Ronson Striped Boyfriend Shirt Tunic

tunics
JCPenney : east5th® Knit Essentials Cowlneck Tunic

Example of skin-tight:

camisole
JCPenney : Arizona Essential Cami- Solids

scoop-neck t-shirt
http://www.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx...GW200BFB21CB6F8B374F8ECDBE8723AA20990E1115423

Again, I'm not saying you must wear a burka, but use judgement when dressing, rather than what the media dictates.

keethi · Jun 4, 2011

Hi ,

Hey just wear conservative dress once n non conservative dress once to satisfy urself n your husband

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