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How to be good wife

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by piu, Dec 19, 2007.

  1. piu

    piu New IL'ite

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    this question is very common to us.we don't know it's answer.Ladies if u have some.please share n help.I know many male member's are here also........please guys give urs likings/dislikings.
     
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  2. Ria2006

    Ria2006 Silver IL'ite

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    Hmm well my answer may not help much here. But nevertheless I will share.
    Because I dont believe in being good daughter, good DIL or good wife. I believe in being Good human being.
    And for me that should cover everything.
    Relations are important rock in our lives , but more important is how our own self looks at us. We give importance to spouse role a way bit too much, Thats why I think it hurts us too much when we dont get the same things in return.

    With that I dont mean , I dont value marriage and its package. I do a lot. And I do everything to keep my marriage a happy one. But at the same time, I am never trying to just be "good wife " or "good daughter " or anythign like that. I am being myself. If my so far upbringing and education has made me a good human being then that should reflect in any engagement I carry in my life. Wether its about being "Good employee", "Good neighbour", "Good mom", "Good DIL", "Good devotee" etc etc..
    So my punch line for myself is "Be good human being, everything else will fall in place"

    Cheers
    Ria
     
  3. Paulina

    Paulina Moderator Staff Member Platinum IL'ite

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    Hi! ria,

    That was a perfect answer indeed.You have put it across very clearly.I do agree wholeheartedly with you when you say that we are always trying to overdo this perfect wife role .If you are a good human being then all else will fall into their alloted slots.
    :cheersPAULINA
     

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