I am sick from past 3 days. I don’t know whether it is because of my sickness or what even small things feeling irritable. Usually I don’t take any in-laws complaints to DH, whether it is a fight or anything I will handle it myself, he has given me that liberty I am very happy about that. DH does not speak to his parents much until unless there is something very emergency. So in-laws contact me for everything this has been going on from years. In-laws had kept some money in their name for DH which I had no idea, that money got matured and came. So they called me told me that his money got matured and came. I got confused what money they are talking about. Even after trying to get information as much as possible they weren’t ready to share how much and from where it came. First of all we are not interested in any money from in-laws. I told them to keep it for themselves and use it even DH told me to tell the same and if not I told them to keep it with them and when next time when we come to India we will take from them. Still they were insisting to deposit, DH got angry and called them they gave him all the details. This made me angry or doesn’t know what emotions. And all the past things came into my mind and I started crying and saying we are married for 13 years and we know each other for 30+years is not sufficient to trust me, I have never asked one rupee from your parents nor never excepted anything from them, instead I myself took care of so many financial things open heartedly, even every time when I go to India I sign and keep blank checks with them for their emergency, I have blindly left my jewellery with them I haven’t even wored few and don’t even remember few, still why do they treat me like an outsider, why do they don’t share any financial information to me, why I am not allowed to go inside fil room in India. This made DH angry and sad as well he doesn’t like me crying and he called his parents asked why did they not share anything to me when I first asked and had huge debate. Later I felt like why did I do this, I could have kept quiet, already there is huge gap between in-laws and DH did I create even more, also in-laws see me as villain always, they treat me like an outsider, when I am there they treat me like a thief as if I take all their money and vanish. I have seen them for 30+ years I know their behaviour And kept my expectations from them zero but this time due my weak emotions I bursted out. Did I over react? Does your in-laws do the same with you guys, and do they not trust you and how much of info they share? I know trust should be earned cannot demand, it left to other person to whether to trust or not. But still when it comes to family is still the same. Please help me to clear my thoughts. As already I am sick and these thoughts making me even more sicker.