How much are you giving to Marriage?

The main motivation to give in the marriage is love and need to be with the partner.It doesnt have to be always a percentage. It has to be mutual giving which has no numbers. This is what I feel. In 5 yrs of my marriage the 2nd ,3rd and 4th were the time I gave in more as the requirement was as such. Now my husband is giving more to marriage and I can step back. We may not be the match made in heaven. We have totally different tastes.Being abroad with husband puts less pressure and more relaxed environment to understand each other.
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