This reminds me of another thought provoking situation which may or may not relevant to reflect here: After the departure of parents to heaven, dad & mom were cleaning & clearing & disposing off parents certain personal effects which include their metal platter In which food was served . Watching it from a distance, their daughter of eight years old, rushed to the spot and grabbed the metal plates from the buyer at doorstep and taken it in. Her enraged mom questioned, “why you need to take it?”. The daughter replied, “ you served all these days grand parents sitting in a corner their food in those aluminium platters. I need it to serve You & Dad when you turn old”.