@Amulet ...apart from answer i am impressed with your english & want to take training from u in english. i am googling for meanings. great mam...are u writer or something required more english. Please dont screw me in front of my well wishers in this platform. . all replies are good. more ever i believe one sentence "Not being BAD is not mean GOOD". my husband is not BAd, so that i have to feel blessed. that kind of meaning i cant accept from few replies. but still i welcome their opinions and thanks to all. i will fallow workable solutions.