I have read only first and last pages...but here goes you seriously need to give him some space dimple7. I feel like you are trying to smother him so much. Your husband need not talk about his insurance to you after marriage, what he needs is some space both mentally and physically. The more you try to force a person , the more he goes into a shell and feels awkward. I'm assuming you had arranged marriage. Just stop worrying so much, you have a perfectly good marriage. Before going inkers over your MIL issues,please go through the forums with invaluable information on IL. Be patient a bit.... You have a lifetime with him.... And please don't complain about him to your parents and don't let your aunt/relatives judge your relationship. Dont try to fix things that are not broken..