Hello everyone, I am a 32 year old married woman with two kids. Mine was an arranged marriage. In the initial period of marriage I realized that my husband was a quite and reserved person, but slowly within a span of two years I came to know the reason of his being quiet was that he was in love with a girl for 5 years, who ditched him for the reason that his elder brother had ditched her elder sister and married someone else. His girlfriend went ahead and married someone else. She lives abroad now. This breakup had made my husband bitter towards women and so was not ready for marriage. After his mother coaxing he went ahead and got married to me. On knowing this truth I was hurt, as i had not heard this from him, but got to know through my mother-in-law. I then decided to shower him with so much love and affection that he gets over his earlier love and only loves me for life. Now after 7 years I feel that I have been defeated and nothing can change him. I, at times get so much depressed that wish to end my life or just walk out on him, but couldn’t because of my two innocent kids. Is there anything I can do to make him affectionate towards me and shower me with love? He never makes any effort to show his concern or love for me. Our sex life is also on his mood and terms (when he wants or likes). I have lost hope but still want to save my marriage, any advice. Diana.