Well, I am a divorced person! The day my ex tried to hit me (I didn't let him) was my last day in that house. I left with whatever I was wearing. Made my own life, divorced him, and never looked back! It doesn't matter what I did or what he did, I wouldn't let someone physically abuse me. My parents didn't educate me to put up with the abuse. My self-respect was much more important than societal rules. I was 24 yo in India.