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Have You Ever Felt That Physical Intimacy Is Reducing With Time ?

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by anitalovesyou, Jul 4, 2018.

  1. anitalovesyou

    anitalovesyou Silver IL'ite

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    Have you ever felt your husband is losing interest in physical intimacy ? How important is physical intimacy in a marriage ? Can a marriage survive without it, if all other factors are going good. Factors like job tension, work load, looks, figure, affair, family disturbance, etc, everything is taken care off, and still losing interest in physical intimacy..... is it possible ?
     
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  2. ashneys

    ashneys Platinum IL'ite

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    Physical intimacy frequency depends on the couple, completely. There's no fixed rule about how many times to do in a week or month. There are some who are intimate once a month, some even every day (even after 15 years of marriage) or some who has lost complete interest in it.

    Problem arises mainly when one partner is feeling deprived, so as long as the partners are not deprived n ok with the changes, everything is fine. I know of a couple who are amazingly well together, lovey, but are intimate like once a month or longer, they are genuinely happy regardless of the "number of times".

    So yes it is possible to have a happy healthy relationship without worrying about frequency (or none at all) as long as it works for both the partners.
     
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    senoritaaa Bronze IL'ite

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    yes. As time progresses many new responsibilities and stresses step as compared to the initial few yaers of marriage, this could be one of the main reasons. Some couples bond as time goes by and some grow apart due to incompatibility. In teh second case definitely if the relation ship is not nurtured and fixed not only does intimacy the quality of life itself goes down............
     
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    shama146 Gold IL'ite

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    Most of the time it does. But basically it depends from couple to couple. If both are Ok with the arrangement then no problem for sure
     
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    peet1983 Silver IL'ite

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    I too have the same thoughts for a long time and thinking how it affects the relations.
     

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