Handling my in-laws

sadhana · Apr 7, 2007

Hi all,

I am new to this forum. Having a "not so good day" I was browsing through the net in office today to find some good tips for handling my in laws and thats when I hit upon this site.
After reading the threads here honestly I forgot what my problem was. (rather it seemed insignificant to me). Finally I felt I found a place where I can share anything without any fears or hesitations. This itself is a great reassurance to me and boosted up my confidence that I can handle things. I really appreciate each and every one of you in being so supportive to one another.

Cheers,
Sadhana.

About me: Newly married. Dont have any serious issues with MIL (till now). Jus that I sometimes get confused by their behaviour and dont know how to behave appropriately or handle things in those circumstances. Wish to share my experience with u all sometime........Also I wish to give some good replies and help some of you out there!!

Have a nice day

sudhavnarasimhan · Apr 7, 2007

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Welcome Sadhana, you have joined in the right site.
if you want go through the forums on relationship, read some of the older threads , you may find a lot of information, which may help you to understand people and relationships.....read some of Varalotti's posts on MIL, Dil and all the replies too!
If not you can always share here and i am sure many of them will help u out!
So go ahead have a great time on IL!:2thumbsup:

krishnaamma · Apr 7, 2007

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Hi Sadhana,

Welcome to IL. As Sudha said go through all the threads and read them. And I want to suggest you one thing. You Just read this book.

"Men from Mars and Wemen from Venus" that will help you more. You can down load this book from internet.

I will try to give you the link, as quick as possible.

Take care,

BhargaviChakravarthy · Apr 7, 2007

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Hi sadhana,
I am BhargaviChakravarthy.I welcome you to the family of IL .You can share and contribute whatever you feel like.Since i have experienced,i am telling.Actually i am unmarried but still i can help you out in whatever ways possible for me:2thumbsup: .I am eagerly expecting your threads.

Its me
BC:wave

sadhana · Apr 9, 2007

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Hi Krishnaamma, BC and Sudha,

Thanks for the suggestions. I think I will badly need then as time progresses...

One nice poem on women which I wuld like to share with u all...
Can be sent to husbands on gloomy days...

A woman needs to be assured
In each and every way,
She needs the warmth of loving words
That only you can say.

She needs a lot of understanding …
When she's feeling somewhat down.
She needs for you to make her smile,
And take away her frown.

A woman's heart is fragile
Her feelings are that way too,
Times she feels so sad inside,
Not knowing what to do.

It's hard to be a woman,
Misunderstood in many ways,
Sometimes all it takes to help,
Is a loving word, to make her day.

She needs to know that she's the one,
That fills your heart with desire,
She needs to be told often,
That she sets your soul on fire.

She needs that soft and tender touch
As if she were a fragile rose,
And feel that she's so special.
From all others, you could have chose.

She needs to hear, "I Love you",
Whether close or miles apart,
She needs to know… she's the one,
That's the center of your heart.

So, please listen when I need to talk,
Please kiss away my tears,
Let me share my worries with you,
And help me face my fears.

sudhavnarasimhan · Apr 9, 2007

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Hi Sadhana,
That was a great poem....am sending it to my hubby definetely!
Also why dont u post it in the fwd or snippets thread, many will benefit from this poem....it is a lovely one and i am sure we have not read it here in IL! It will be a great posting from you.....

dsrini · Apr 9, 2007

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Hi Sadhana
You are absolutely right. We can share whatever we want to without any hesitation, I felt the same.
Take care
-Dhivya

sadhana · Apr 10, 2007

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That was gud suggestion Sudha..I have posted it the forwards thread...

Hi Dhivya..nice to hear that..

krishnaamma · Apr 10, 2007

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Hi Sadhana,

Very nice poem. Surely I will show this to my husband. :2thumbsup:

krishnaamma · Apr 11, 2007

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Hi Sadhana,
Here is the link for the book. Men from Mars and Wemen from Venus

You can down load the book from this link. Just click the link.:yes: