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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Happy016, Jan 14, 2014.

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  1. Jan 15, 2014 #41
    tashidelek2002

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    darmesh: I do NOT want to give up my right to be contacted by anyone as long as they do not act improperly.

    Don't you guys know this is a ladies' site and not a dating site? Does every site have to be a dating site? Can't you find entertainment of that sort on the plethora of adult, ****, dating, mingling and hookup sites? Or is it the sheer lakhs of females on this site that makes you guys go crazy?

    The poor OP who has when last I looked only 16 posts to her count is saying she has been contacted improperly. OP: go ahead and let us know who is bothering you. Just follow the blocking procedures that his fellow brethren have enumerated.

    I wish these guys would stop defending the indefensible.
     
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  2. Jan 16, 2014 #42
    Dinny

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    The title I guess.




    SOS admin:
    High time we made our report icon bigger.
     
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  3. Jan 16, 2014 #43
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    Hmmm, let's reflect on the tone here. Fair summary of men?
    It is precisely this kind of view (often unexpressed) that I was trying to look into.


    Nothing was defended.
    The idea is to reach a compromise between permitting open expression, even of unpopular opinions & the elimination / quarantining of undesirables first at an individual level & if necessary site-wide.

    OK, I am OUT, off in search of the adult, dating, ****, mingling and hookup sites.
     
    sokanasanah, Jan 16, 2014
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    Sorry to see you go SN...but I am not surprised . Just disappointed at the responses and the trend. Guilty until proven innocent has become quite the norm here unless u fall into a very specific demographic .

    I am just amazed it takes so little to create a thread like this. There was no proof . No deliberation of what the PM was about and why it was offensive. Nothing. One post from a member who has no track record... and we are all so eager to jump in.
    Oh man!!!
     
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    oh.... Wait for me......... Arent we all the same.......... Lolz.......
     
    Quebec, Jan 16, 2014
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    Happy016

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    I'm not scared ......I scolded him properly with intense words and even warned him ........if he has self respect this will never repeat it.he is blocked frm sending pm to me.

    try to be pure and trust worthy to your partner. According to me flirting to some extend is also considered betraying trust of your loved ones ( only indecent ppl not all)

    my only concern is wht if he created new id and start again?
     
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    Dinny

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    Our Admin and mods are smart enough to track such ids.
    Those who suffer from such lalochezia aren't spared.
     
    Dinny, Jan 16, 2014
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    CrayoNess

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    So what if someone sends stupid PM:s. Forget, ignore and move on.
     
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    I completely agree with JAG. Without any proof, I too would not support OP.

    i don't think there was a need for such a thread because not all men here are bad. If that guy was troubling OP, she could have blocked him at the first place and also reported him to the admins. They would have definitely taken action against him.
     
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    Agree....I do this.
     
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