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Got Divorce notice... What should I do next.

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by hopefullylucky, Jul 25, 2015.

  1. hopefullylucky

    hopefullylucky Junior IL'ite

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    I m going through a very bad phase in life. First, I was mentally harrased by my husband because of his affair with a married woman. Because of it, I even tried to commit suicide. Now for 3 months, I am at my parent's place and he is not contacting me or my parents. It was my bday last week, n I expected at least then he would come to take me back. Since, he didn't came, we decided to go directly to my home.

    Now, today he had sent a divorce notice at my brother's address. Though, I told him not to receive it.
    I do not know what to do now?

    All my certificates and precious jewellery r there only. He has filed this case in Pune, whereas I don't think it is safe for me to live there with him. I have to probably move to Delhi, from where I studied and worked before marriage. Should I file another case in Delhi.? Can I get the case moved to Delhi. What will be the cost to hire a advocate. Can I claim this from him? As currently I m not working and my parents are on pension.
     
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    hopefullylucky Junior IL'ite

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    Currently I am with my parents in my hometown, which is a small city in WB. We have our tickets for Pune next week.
     
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    charanya147 Silver IL'ite

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    hi
    very sorry for you . go by ur parents words. let his parents and yours meet and discuss. let d almighty be with you
     
  4. ChennaiExpress

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    It's a blessing in disguise he is asking for divorce. God is removing this devil from your life.

    He doesn't care for you.



    I'm not familiar with legal workings in India. Perhaps other ladies can advise on this.

    I'm really sorry for this phase you are going through. God has blessing with your name on it, and you have better days ahead.
     
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    Thanks for your kind words... Need these blessings tremendously.. Hope this phase ends soon
     
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    Where are my manners????

    Happy Belated Birthday Dear!
     
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    Hi, you should contact a divorce lawyer immediately, regarding what should be ur next step. Extra marital Affair means your side is strong, talk to lawyer how to get your alimony , property etc of your share.

    u have to react to the notice as early as possible, u can't ignore it. Otherwise in court he will show his story and u will get nothing.


    first see how to get ur certificates and jewelery. May be u have some common friends, through them do talks and get those. Or he will keep those and make u to agree for his terms.
     
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    Ohh... Ok. As of now, we have not received the notice as I asked my brother to say that I don't live in Mumbai, so don't accept any thing addressed to me.
    My husband has informed my sister in law that he had sent it to my hometown and native place address as well. We'll receive it when it reaches here. Thanks @kashmirflower for the guidance.
     
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    Thanks :) but this year it is not a happy one :(
     
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    Things will get better ... I promise.
     
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