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Golden Rules for every woman

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Shanthi, Mar 31, 2007.

  1. rmayadas

    rmayadas New IL'ite

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    hi shanti.
    to be frank , i have been married for more than 10yrs now. got married when i was really young.had a real tought time adjusting to married life,but now more or less have got the hang of it.have a baby 3 yr old.was having a tough time doing the juggling act.But your post came as an eye opener.Was great reading it.realised that we all face the same sort of problems no matter wherever we are.
     
  2. billybob

    billybob Gold IL'ite

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    Well written shanthi, I followed some of the rules. Men are capable of more than we think.
     
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  3. sadwife

    sadwife Gold IL'ite

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    Shanthi, Aaryambal &Vijayanarasimha,

    Thanks a lot for sharing your experience with us.
    The more older you are, the more valuable are your advices. :)

    lovechennai,

    That's my hubby's favourite quote whenever I complain about in laws. :rotfl:rotfl
     
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  4. arty2010

    arty2010 Bronze IL'ite

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    the golden rules is very realistic and practical.. feels great to know there are lots of women feeling the same way and have emerged to be stronger..truly, IL is like having an extended family :) one regret that i have is, i should have joined the group when i was in my low phase so that i did not have to learn these golden rules the hard way:)
     
  5. juliana123

    juliana123 New IL'ite

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    well written,it it really suprising how this article written few years ago, is being read by the members.
    I have a question, shanthi how did you find a job after being a homemaker, just curious, what kind of questions they ask in the interview especially if you take up a job after a career break ?? any inputs would be useful..
     
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    ppriya182010 Gold IL'ite

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    Wonderful post! Written 4 years back and no wonder its still getting so many replies! It applies to all married women.
     
  7. JAYARAJ5

    JAYARAJ5 New IL'ite

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    Dear Shanthi mam,
    I am Jaya.I am new to this forum..i agree with ur thoughts..I can understand that u have faced a lot of pains to learn such a great lesson..But the lessons are great and have made u stronger..thanks for guiding us..I pray that u get all the pleasures in the world..
     
  8. Ami

    Ami Silver IL'ite

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    Well said...spreading the positive energy within the family or friends will certainly make them to realize to come out of heir negative thoughts or those long faces; if not immediately, but, definitely in the long run...

    Thanks for sharing.
     
  9. amritavarshini

    amritavarshini Bronze IL'ite

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    shanti..i wish u cud come and give u a big hug..wat u have said is 100% right..this is my 3rd year of marriage and in this short span i have learnt many lessons...i thought my happiness was the responsibility of the people around me but time proved it to be wrong..well its a long story if i have to tell..i admit i have made lot of mistakes but now i realise the imp of the saying-the best helping hand is one at the end of ur own arm
     
  10. rajinitk4

    rajinitk4 IL Hall of Fame

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    I downloaded and read the golden rules and completely agree with all of them. These are the simple rules which all of us are aware of but forget and make our life miserable. Thanks for reminding us again.
     

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