Frnz pleasee help me to come out of this issue save my sons life

It was aired on Mahabharata yesterday. LOL![/QUOTE]\

Yes it suits the situation of the op here, so take it if it suits you.. This line suits us all in life is my view...

 

I felt really sad dear reading your post. You are a wonderful person. Why do you want to tolerate this nonsense from your in laws and husband?? Your husband has been very mean to you. If he really loved you, he would never say stupid things or act stupidly. You have given him the most precious thing, a child. He isn't grateful for even that.
Dear, I feel you have to take some action right now. Don't wait for him to divorce you. You divorce him. Life will be much easy for you and your son. There is no point weeping for people who don't know your worth. You are a very educated woman. Stand up for yourself. nobody can do it for you. Be a strong woman. May God help you.

 

OP, I don't think your husband wants a divorce. He just want to control you by fear. It is high time you call his bluff. If you are strong, they will feel strong as well and any hesitation will vanish.

 

OP, Life doesnt end with divorce and what do you get by staying with a man who hits you and your mother and abuses you whenever he gets a chance. In my opinion, you should file a case against your husband as many here have suggested for threatening to throw acid and saying that he will ask someone to rape you. Do you really want to give away precious years of your life to such a man? You are only 25 and you have a good career and now you need to be strong and learn to respect yourself first. A self respecting person will never take abuse and will learn to say No. I wish you all the best and take care!

 

No you are not doing anything strong. Dont continue to talk to your office colleague-it will make you further weak. And moreover you said these type of thngs are common in south part of Tamilnadu, no it is not. You are still not come out of your small circle thats why you are saying all these. At least no sensible husband will talk about acid attack/rape to his wife even at the worst timing, and thats not a common verbal abuse that comes to a normal person's mind. it shows he has been thinking of these words in his mind for sometme. Stay strong and separate for sometime, if he realzes his fault he will come. Even after your parents give money/house, he will continue to do the same abuse only. You are a person not some junk to get rid of and give him money for being a husband to you...

Dont continue talking about ths topic with your office colleague.

 

Dont discuss your family problems in office.

 

Dear. . .

I feel so bad for you. Just cried on reading your post. Those people are not worth. Just leave them. Get Divorce and Live your life. Dont let your boy grow up in such an envi. Give him peace and you be peaceful also. You are so young to have so much problems in your life. Be strong and Be Bold. Never Beg anyone to give anything for you. You have the ability to have your own life. Make your mom and dad understand your decision and move along. Dont try to dedicate or live with those lifeless people again.

Hugs to your Dear!