Hi Premlatha, I am gomathi living in US and searching for friends... I am married and living in US for 4 years. Hope you are doing great. we can chat and be good friends.. Hoping to get your reply soon.
There is nothing called unconditional friendship. I was like you a lot BUT understand that half the people have friends just for "company" Many are "acquaintances".Some people cannot be alone or have the need to go out a lot.so they require people and are ok with the"good and the bad".Only if you are ready for all this,you will have friends. Friendship is also "chemistry" just like love.When you have that chemistry,you are totally oblivious to their faults and theirs to yours.It does exist and you can be yourself with them.That will occur when you "LET GO".allow things to come to you.Don't overdo or search hard.that becomes a turn off. My suggestion which worked for me is,I stopped expecting to make friends and I told myself that I will be who am.I will not interfere in others life and am very generic.I have my own hobbies and do not give time to think about making friends.Trust me.."THINGS WILL START TO HAPPEN". Do not have any expectations and go with the flow.all you need is to find "people with whom you are comfortable with"and not the "perfect friend".