I casually called friend to ask how is she doing... She spoke rude, uncivilized I would say. I wished her only good all these years. I drove 1000 miles in winter when her child was born, treated like sister. Now she says her husband just spoke to the other woman, never said "wish we were married" Or anything else. Friend said they had facetime for hours now denies says since the other woman in top niche job , her husband trying for that company or similar role. I asked why you're you denying?she is said "why do you bother" I'm heartbroken, when she needed me called me whenever needed whenever wanted. For a week I didn't cook, clean properly taking calls, providing emotional support. Now all of a sudden she says 'there was no cheating, her husband spoke only on job prospects' It was her who misunderstood, moreover she said "you too supported that thought, you didn't say he is innocent" I was speechless. He is not my friend. I couldn't say anything. I told her I supported you as you said whatever known to you. And I came to know friend's husband got her new car, recently they went for a trip, also buying a property soon thru another friend B, who also know what's happening there. She is equally puzzled why she is behaving like this, supporting a morale less man. People change , make you look like bad/crazy. I'm questioning myself why? She shouldn't have said the issue to me, but when she was down needed me, now I'm an emotional trash can, she can come pour her emotions burden. Wish I learnt the art of taking in one ear and leaving in another. Is being good friend a sin? Humble request to all good souls : stay in a distance., Emotional distance. Physically help. Sometimes you gotta leave people the lame **it they do.