Finest Posts - Suggestions For Changes

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  1. Mistt

    Mistt IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi Satchi ji,

    Sorry to post like this but I can't feel like to keep silent as I don't know anything. I completely aware of what has happened among judges, Geeta and IL admin.
    Agree, you all are giving priority to new members contributions and selecting their posts as finest post that's why I had seen a couple of not worth for best writings too.
    I can show you where you behaved partial to a couple of IL members by selecting their posts as best contributions.

    December2017:Iravati and Kkrish
    January2018: Kkrish and Gauri03 ( one member's post selected as best post consecutively)


    Septembre 2017: Thyagarajan and Bhargavi03
    May 2018: Thyagarajan and Iyerviji
    February 2019: Thyagarajan and Arushi

    How come a membe selected thrice ? Isn't that we call partiality?
    I know I can definetly get opposition from many members here and I don't want to give that chance to anyone. i just wanted to leave IL and saying GOODBYE to IL.

     
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  2. satchitananda

    satchitananda Finest Post Winner

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    Hi Mistt,

    Putting your point of view across is fine. But to say you don't want to hear the answer to that and quitting IL for that reason is hardly fair. If you have a point of view, you should have the courage to hear the other side of it too. This is just like slinging mud and running away.

    As for 'couple of posts' which were 'not worthy of prize', I am sure whichever contest it is, there will be varied opinions. Not everybody would agree with the judges.

    I would have responded to your points in detail, but if you have already decided to quit IL and said goodbye, I am not sure you will be here to read the response. So I shall not say anymore.

    As for partiality, I can assure you I have not received any bribe from any of the members you have mentioned, I do not know them personally in real life, so I stand to benefit nothing by giving them prizes except to get brick bats.
     
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    Viswamitra Finest Post Winner

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    @SinghManisha,

    I was like your son when I was young too. I am sure he speaks fluent Tamil now. If I continue to be like that now at the age of 65, the following thoughts would have come to my mind.

    Alleged Criteria 1 - Writer should know the moderator well.

    "I know @satchitananda and @Cheeniya Sir very well through multiple interactions.

    Alleged Criteria 2 - One should be a reputed writer.

    I have reasonable reputation (I feel ashamed to write this here even for an example)

    Alleged Criteria 3 - One should speak fluent Tamil.

    I speak very fluent Tamil even though I live in the US for the past 23 years.

    Examples:

    1 - "Idu nana setha Kuttam illa. Thana sendha kootam"

    2 - "Naan oru thadava sonna, nooru thadava sonna mathiri"

    3 - "Pannigaldhan Kootama varum. Singham singladhan varum".

    My threads were nominated 12 times in the last 17 months (based on statistical data provided by another great IL writer as I don't care to collect such data) but none of them were winners. They should have given top priority to all of my threads based on all of the above criteria."

    :roflmao::roflmao::roflmao:
     
  4. kkrish

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    Hi @satchitananda Sats
    The poster who quoted this seems to have left.

    However, since I read this list first time, I was curious too.
    The reason ... it does not fall under the minimum 6-month gap between wins.

    This was why I mentioned that there is a flaw in the process of selecting Finest Post. There seems to be inconsistency in the rules and adherence to it.

    I certainly would like to hear why I was given this award back-to-back, when the rules prohibit it.

    How much ever the actions are justified, looking at this from the point of view of a person whose posts were nominated every month for almost two years, and not awarded, it certainly will appear as favoritism.
     
  5. Mistt

    Mistt IL Hall of Fame

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    We like someone and do favors that is partially and for that they don't give money or something to us. We don't need to see those persons in real life.
    I have courage to listen your response and I know you will try to defend yourself.
     
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    Kkrish ma'am
    Sorry to bring your name in that post. I respect you and your posts. Please don't mind.
     
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    No worries @Mistt
    I am glad this was brought up.
    It gives everyone a chance to understand each other better.

    I am deeply disturbed by the divisiveness this has brought about, less than a month of the thread, "hum saath saath hain".

    Hope these misunderstandings are cleared out in the open so we can move on.
     
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    Dear @satchitananda Ma'am - All I want to say is I deeply respect what you do for this forum. Your love and care for each member - the way you take time to give feedback to so many posts in a genuine yet friendly fashion has always captivated me. I am truly pained by your and other admin's pain in the recent situation. Life is so unfair given the amount of time and effort that you all pour in to this forum. How I wish the virtual world was a kinder place - and imagine saying this on Indus Ladies - which I came to precisely for its large abundance of well-wishers.
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    I've been reading this list for the past couple of days. As any one is wont to when looking at a group picture or exam results on board, I quickly scanned for my name. The keen eyed would notice that Dec 2018 has only one name showing up. No comma after that and other winner's (yours truly) name is missing. I am not sure what to make of this. Is my name missing like an ugly furniture hidden away when guests come or is it like the attractive cousin sister asked to not appear during pelli-choopulu (boy's side come to girl-dekko)?

    _________________________________________________________________________
    List of winners in last 22 months for ready perusal

    Mar 2017: Rajeni, justanothergirl
    Apr 2017: Aarushi, Prash29
    May 2017: Krishnendu, Shanvy
    June 2017: Blackbeauty, Sunburst
    July 2017: teenulahari, BeingSoulful
    August 2017: SCSusila, Satlak
    September 2017: Thyagarajan Bhargavi03
    October 2017: buddingleader, Rihana
    November 2017: GeetaKashyap, Laks
    December 2017: Iravati, kkrish
    January 2018: Gauri03, kkrish
    February 2018: nandinimithun, jskls
    March 2018: shravs3 Joyoflife
    April 2018: Star25, Sandycandy
    May 2018: Thyagarajan, iyerviji
    June 2018: Srama, SCSusila
    July 2018: Agatha, rgsrinivasan
    August 2018: SinghManisha, Lalithambigai
    September 2018: peartree, BhumiBabe
    October 2018: alady2018, Rakhii
    November 2018: Amulet, kaniths
    December 2018: jskls
    January 2018: kveena, laks
    February 2018: Thyagarajan, Aarushi
    March 2018: sln, Greenbay
    April 2018: Agatha, Anusha2019
     
  10. kkrish

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    However, i am not happy with this comment from you @Mistt
    "I know you will try to defend yourself."
    That is unfair to @satchitananda , and shows you are closed to any explanation. .

    I have no hope for a reconciliation then . I am sad.
     
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