Finally Moved..But stillo iam not comfortable...Please pour in your thoughts

Give it some time.. take time to settle down in your new house. Everything does not get sorted out in one day, right?

 

Friend everything is depend upon what way we taking.

If you think simple means its simple if u think its difficult means difficult .

For money we loosing many things but money also essential what to do.

my simple suggestion just take it easy all in simple manner life will be simple.

what ever i told here is my practice thats it friend.

For you your DH is helping here i only handling all the things lonely.

Cheer up dont let you down.

We are all having invisible strengths we just need to boost that power thats it.

take care friend

all is to be well soon

 

Don't worry it takes time to settle down

 

I would say give it some time. You must be saving some travelling time and try to see where that time is going. Also may be you & your dh need to set some time aside so you can spend it together. Household work can wait as its never ending. I would say set some time aside every so often to do things together.

 

You moved to here because of some reasons. Appreciate and enjoy that
Your travelling is reduced; hence you must be taking more rest than before (4 hrs is not small). Enjoy that.
You may not spend more time with hubby now, but definitely spending a lot with kid. Cherish that
Like wise, see only the positives in whatever you do. Chase out the negative person in you, and welcome the positive person. Life is always like that. It is all about how we take it.

When we leave our mother's home after marriage, we should be definitely missing many things, such as our parents, mom's cooking, care, love, sisters and the fun. But at the same time our life will bring some new happiness in new forms like the husband, his love, intimacy, care, kids, responsibilities and achievements.
If we are keep on dwelling in the past and missing parents, we won't be able to enjoy the new love and developments in life.

You can't have your cake and eat it too. Move on !

 

You are probably too busy because you have just moved. Give it some more time. Soon u will get friendly to the area then you might oh it's probably the best thing we have ever done. Time is the medicine for everything.

 

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Hey Swathi,

Give some time and take it as positive. Slowly you will be able to adjust to this new schedule. Most of the us are having this kind of routine including me.

 

Moving house is like that. Even in best situation by the time you r packed, moved and unpack 50% you begin to wonder why the hell you even started this process. You are just tired. once you finish unpack and get proper rest, you will feel much better. in another 2 weeks when all this extra work will reduce then you can slowly start introducing routines, decorating, rearranging etc in your home acc to your wish and you will start enjoying your home and the peaceful atmosphere.