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Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Oct 13, 2021 at 6:44 PM.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    Feeling emotional. If my husband did not have health.problems we would have stayed in Mumbai and enjoyed Navratri

    I was not going to keep golu as I have health problems. But would have enjoyed Navratri by going to other places. Some friends have messaged me saying they miss my golu

    One day everyone has to go and what is in our fate would happen. Glad I lived with my husband for 48 years. During my husband's nieces daughters marriage, (my elder sister in law's grand daughter ) they put mehndi for me and sis inlaw's three grand daughters saidduring your 50th marriage anniversary we will put mehndi for you.

    Last year we were going to celebrate his sadabhishekam when we would have met all relatives but due to.covid it was stopped.

    I could not be without saying my feelings.
    Instead of crying and thinking of all this thought let me put in writing and share with you all
     
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  2. Mistt

    Mistt IL Hall of Fame

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    @iyerviji maa,
    I feel for you maa please don't be emotional. I'm not in a stage of advice you but one thing is We can't control somethings and we need to accept some changes and move on.
    Sometimes remembering past good memories give happiness maa. Divert your mind to do start your hobbies of making jewellery and etc again.
    You are staying in a God's own country and try to enjoy that beautiful nature. Hope you will be fine. Take Care maa.
     
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    messedup Platinum IL'ite

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    Thanks for sharing your feelings here aunty. I know it's difficult for you but I truly was worried for you and was waiting eagerly for your post. The loss is big but I know you are strong enough to survive with it. Do take care of your health and never feel alone. We are also your family and will always be there for you. Everyone here love you so much and want you to always be happy. Please take care. Love you so much.
     
  4. maalti

    maalti Silver IL'ite

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    Dear Vijima, you can always share your feelings with us. I can completely understand the emotions which you are going through. Take good care of your health. Time is the best healer. I am sure you will soon come out of this tough time.
     
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    anika987 Finest Post Winner

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    Feel free to share vijima.Time heals! It is completely fine to feel your emotions.Take time for yourself.
    Anything you wanna share in IL,please feel free.we are there to hear you out.
     
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    Gauri03 Staff Member Finest Post Winner

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    Glad to see you posting again aunty. Please keep your thoughts coming. I might not always comment but I love reading your reflections. I’m sure you have many more silent readers on this forum who wait eagerly for your snippets.
     
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    nuss Platinum IL'ite

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    Auntie- it is natural to feel emotional! We are always here to listen. Look at it this way- you have memories of 48 years to celebrate! Wonderful memories of a life lived in love and companionship! He is watching over you from heaven!
     
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    Laks09 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Viji Aunty,
    It’s a very difficult loss to come to terms with. I cannot even comprehend being in your shoes. Even though we at IL won’t compare to everyone you have at home, we are still here for you. Hugs and lots of love to you.
     
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    No words can console the irreparable loss that you have suffered, but as rightly put by Anika, time is a great healer. In the meantime, try to be busy with activities that you like.
     
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    Dear Vijiji - I am not good with words, however messedup has said all what I also wanted to say. Take care of yourself, stay safe and healthy. GBU
     
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