I'm married to my DH (love marriage) from 3 yrs...No kids as yet. From the beginning, I noticed that my DH's parents, siblings and relatives are playing important role in his life...I got married very young before even receiving undergraduate degree, at that time I was very naive, innocent and not having much worldly knowledge or maturity to handle responsibilities of married life and relationships..I was a typical obedient girl who dint answer back. MIL as well as some of PIL side relatives made sure that they interfered as much as possible in our life as they also were staying with us for some time...They interfered in my personal life with my hubby to some extent and made some unpleasant remarks about me...Due to misunderstandings created by them, for sometime I had many bitter fights with my husband...For a long time (almost 2 yrs) I suffered silently, but after sometime I also started protesting, answering back and distancing myself from those relatives...only then the torture reduced... Now I make sure I avoid the people who troubled me in the past. But I get regular updates about relatives regularly thru in-laws...I always get some good news about them like- someone is expecting a baby, someone is going on an exotic vacation, etc...And this makes me angry and jealous...The thing is, all the mental stress that I faced in past has deteriorated my health a lot and affected my confidence to such an extent that I sometimes feel that I cannot achieve anything...Now I have delayed having babies due to few personal and health issues...And after hearing that the same people who troubled me are living happily and doing so well is only increasing my anger and frustration...Whenever I meet any of them i'm filled with anger and jealousy after remembering how they had troubled me...I have tried all possible methods to control my anger,..But no use. Actually I'm not a jealous person, only recently I've become like this...How to deal with this? please advice.