@homemaker81 , I think your husband has piled up some anger against you. First clear that up. As he checks with other people, its not his nature to be insensitive. Let this incident pass by. Whenever he is in a nice mood, slowly talk to him about the grudge he has on you. Explain him that you have changed a lot and you are longing for his love, care and kind words. At that time, explain to him how hurt you were when he didn't ask how you were feeling when you were sick.