Hi all, I am married with 2 small kids. Living in US for the last 4 years. Whenever I fall sick, my husband doesn't even care to ask how I am feeling. This hurts me a lot. Yesterday I had some root canal done, I was dying in pain. My husband didn't even ask a word about my teeth procedure or pain. With no friends here, I felt so bad. I just told him that I am very upset that he is not even asking me a word whenever I am sick or dying with pain. But I always take care of him so much. He said " I wantedly didn't ask about your health. Because I don't feel like asking such things to you." I have seen him enquiring his parents or friends or colleagues when they are sick. His answer was like a slap on my face. But I was all in tears the moment he said this. But he continues to talk to me normally after this. But I still feel sad about his words. His reason for this statement "my possessiveness on him". I never like him interacting with women or going out with women for lunch. So we have had a lots of fights earlier because I always assume he is with someone. But now I don't ask anything and I have changed a lot. But he still has so much hatred towards me. Should I continue talking to him as he does or let him sense how painful was his words. This is not only with tooth pain. This happens every time even when I am in unbelievable pain. He doesn't even care about me. I am feeling very lonely and all in tears, with no one to console.