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Erection at night

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by dimple7, Jun 10, 2015.

  1. dimple7

    dimple7 Gold IL'ite

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    friends.....sometimes i get awake at around 3-4am in the morning and am afraid as most of the time i have discovered my DH's private part is erect and strong.
    Am really surprised and afraid....as it stays for long time. After that he leaves for office. If i ask him he says my leg just got touch to his penis. Whereas i know its not.
    I am clueless.
    Is it normal to get such erections daily at such hours when we sleep at around 10-11pm? Or should i get it as something else?
     
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  2. rkk1

    rkk1 Gold IL'ite

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    Your question probably is more suited to the Intimacy sub-forum.

    Regardless, I would like to say this situation is completely normal. Erections can happen during REM phase of sleep to men. Even women can have some arousal symptoms during their REM sleep, though it of course won't be so obvious. So don't worry - it happens to many people and is not anything to be concerned about. You can simply tease him about this and leave it at that.

    (I am a new doctor currently doing my MD post-graduate training.)
     
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  3. Rihana

    Rihana Finest Post Winner

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    OP, the doctor is right.

    Nice to read the above, rkk. Seeing a post from you after long. Welcome back.

    -R
     
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  4. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    Dimple...post such threads in the intimacy section.
    This is quite normal.When your sex life becomes more frequent,this may become less.Next time,don't get afraid,give him a hug and a kiss.
     
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  5. Rihana

    Rihana Finest Post Winner

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    Excuse me... at 4 a.m. giving kiss ... morning breath and all that, dicey no?
     
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  6. yellowmango

    yellowmango IL Hall of Fame

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    @Rihana
    Skip the kiss?????
    Keep mint handy?
    Seems like such a waste to let things pass and not start the day on a good note.:coffee
     
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    SGBV IL Hall of Fame

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    You are right. Why waste such a good experience and great booster to start the day for this trivial matter.
    You brush your teeth anyway at night, and if breath is too smelly then use a mint or a candy with a good smell.
     
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  8. bulesha

    bulesha Silver IL'ite

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    First : It's quite normal so don't worry
    second: kisses & fun, You really don't know what are you missing here.
    Third: Experience the wee hours, you will not regret.
     
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    bulesha Silver IL'ite

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    2[SUP]nd [/SUP] and 3[SUP]rd[/SUP] point: your cuddle kisses can be best start of the day & can lead to wee hour sex. Going by some researchers & my own experience, morning hours are the best sex sessions because of freshness, relaxed mind & body.
     
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  10. dimple7

    dimple7 Gold IL'ite

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    thanks all......................
     

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