1. How to Build Positivity in Married Life? : Click Here
    Dismiss Notice

Emotional Detachment

Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by RiaME, Dec 30, 2022.

  1. Dec 30, 2022 #1
    RiaME

    RiaME Senior IL'ite

    Messages:
    17
    Likes Received:
    20
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Gender:
    Female
    Is it a good thing to emotionally detach (make your mind believe they dont exist) oneself from the people who treat you like you r not part of their household after getting all the things done from you, that too after 17 yrs of marriage?

    Get all the household chores done by your dil, get served by her with absolutely no shame and then treat her like she does nor belong.

    How to coexist with such people?
     
    RiaME, Dec 30, 2022
    RiaME, Dec 30, 2022
    #1
    KashmirFlower likes this.
    Loading...

    Similar Threads
    1. poovai

      Emotional Detachment Lead Me To A New Hobby

      poovai, Feb 1, 2017, in forum: Married Life
      Replies:
      14
      Views:
      4,911
      DP1
      Jul 25, 2018
    2. anika987

      No Emotional Investment..

      anika987, Dec 29, 2022, in forum: Relationship With In-Laws
      Replies:
      3
      Views:
      1,434
      anika987
      Dec 29, 2022
    3. SuiDhaaga

      How To Relieve Chest Pain Due To Emotional Stress

      SuiDhaaga, Sep 28, 2022, in forum: Health & Wellness
      Replies:
      4
      Views:
      645
      SuiDhaaga
      Sep 28, 2022
  2. Jan 3, 2023 #2
    soulful

    soulful Platinum IL'ite

    Messages:
    1,227
    Likes Received:
    2,354
    Trophy Points:
    283
    Gender:
    Female
    The answer to your question is YES, YES and YES!
    Do it for your sanity. Do it to irk them. But fair warning - you will start enjoying life! If you are ready for that, then do so right now!

    Apart from all the light hearted response above… i highly recommend being emotionally detached. Do not seek their validation. Do what you can without stretching yourself. When you seek approval you go iver and beyond what you can and are disappointed when those efforts go unnoticed and worse, put down.

    when you do just enough, you don’t feel bad.

    It is hard but possible. And it takes consistent practice. I used to do it so well once upona. Time that it irked my mil to no end. and then life changed and i forgot how to ignore my inlaws. Now i am re learning that and life is getting better again.

    so good luck. You can do this!!
     
    soulful, Jan 3, 2023
    soulful, Jan 3, 2023
    #2
    KashmirFlower likes this.

Share This Page