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Does Infidelity Runs In Family? Asking For A Friend

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Vedhavalli, Jun 4, 2021.

  1. Vedhavalli

    Vedhavalli Platinum IL'ite

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    She is going ahead with this guy.
    They are getting engaged ,will do court wedding in US. Later when situation in India becomes better, will have a reception there.
    Though her dad not willing and she has told to hide 2wives thing from extended family
     
  2. Needtobestrong

    Needtobestrong Platinum IL'ite

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    Ok, your friend has made her decision.
    For now everything is ok, wedding in US and reception later in India when safer to travel..you just need to trust your friends and let her live her life with her decisions..she is an educated and well settled lady who has made an informed decision...
    But one thing, even if she hides the realities of the polygamy of her FIL, it may not work for long.
    It’s a small world, some how people know each other.
    Social media makes lot of unrelated or indirectly related people to connect with each other. Mainly FB and insta.
    These things will come into the open and be known to extended family and friends circle sooner or later.
    Your friend should be prepared to deal with this and manage the situations.
     
  3. chanchitra

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    Best wishes for your friend :cheer:
     
  4. sarvantaryamini

    sarvantaryamini Gold IL'ite

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    I think son should not be punished for his dad's fault. That said I agree that in an arranged marriage this is a good reason to not proceed. Maybe if she courted him for some time, it would make sense since there is some degree of familiarity. Anyway these things are all destined. I hope she is a strong person and wish her all the best and a happy married life. On a side note, if you don't think it's superstition, you can collect her birth details and consult a genuine professional astrologer. They will give some hints on whether it can go wrong. But again, they can't prevent destiny from taking it's course.
     

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