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do you guys exchange passwords????

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by rmakkar, Mar 28, 2012.

  1. rmakkar

    rmakkar Junior IL'ite

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    hey
    just today when i opened my indusladies account a thought just crossed my mind and i wish to ask all my friends here.do you guys know the passwords of your husbands e-mail id's?
    is it necessary that as married couple we must be aware or is it ok not knowing them as well?
     
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  2. Padmash

    Padmash Platinum IL'ite

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    yes, i know my husbands email passwords... i like to know and he also knows mine. We can ask them if they dont feel any inconvenience. Another thing i feel we must know as this relationship is based on trust.
     
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    cutemonster Platinum IL'ite

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    yes i know my husbands password for his gmail , his facebook and all other accounts , he also knows my passwords but im the one who checks his accounts more , upload his picx on facebook as he is superbusy and im free all day :)
     
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    superwoman09 Gold IL'ite

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    Yes I do know his passwords and he knows all of mine, but we rarely check each other's mails..usually its only when some imp mail is in the other person's account
     
  5. rmakkar

    rmakkar Junior IL'ite

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    hi
    its been a year since i got married buit i nevr asked my hubby for his passwords nor did i,but few days back when i laughingly asked for them he said 'have i ever asked you ,your passwords?if no.then why are you asking mine?"i did get upset over it and all but he still didnot tell me.i felt so bad. though i trust him completely but then what is this?
     
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    KAME Silver IL'ite

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    yes, i do know my dh password.. sometimes when he is busy he will ask me to send a official emails from his account... i have not asked him about the passwords..infact he told me all the passowrds and other secret codes before our marriage itself while we were speaking over phone.. but one thing.. he never asked my password of my email account... but i told him.. he never mind about this and all.
     
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    preethiitech Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    we do not know each others passwords, and have never asked for it at all.. What is it that we want to check in other person's account?

    But in some cases, I have asked my Dh to open my mail to check something if I am travelling and vice versa. But then we dont remember the passwords of each other and dont open the inbox of the other person.. We dont feel we have the need to check the other, its all trust.
     
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    preethiitech Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    If there are no other issues in your marriage, then you need not make this silly issue a big thing..

    Although we are married, we should give each other some private space.. or else the relation gets suffocating..:cheers
     
  9. rmakkar

    rmakkar Junior IL'ite

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    yes preethiitech i agree its all about rust dera.but the topic came up accidently betwen the two of us and i wa not even serious when i asked his passwords but his answer made me feel so bad that what is there to hide that you are uncomfortable sharing them with me......
     
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    rkgurbani IL Hall of Fame

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    We know each others passwords too. In an open relationship where your conscious is clear, then surely you have nothing to be afraid of or nothing to hide. Even though we know each others passwords etc, we have never stopped each other or questioned each other about the mails that we send or recieve from anybody.
     
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