Hello friends, I am married for the past 4 months. Me and my husband both work in IT companies. Though my MIL is quite good by nature, she expects me to work when my she is working. Even on days when I am late from office or feeling tired, the next day I have to get up early, sweep and clean house, cut vegetables, help her in cooking etc etc. There is literally no work in home after we both leave to office. Some days I feel dog tired but I am not able to say anything even to my husband since our relation is new. By tradition they feel that women should do all house work, so I cant even call my husband for help. On weekends also I have work when she works and rest when rests. I feel my life has become mechanical with not much freedom. Sometimes I get very stressed due to work at both office and home. The worst part is If someday I get up a bit late she still keeps my part of the work though she will have so much time to do it. I feel very irritated but she speaks very nicely and acts as if nothing has happened. Indirectly then she starts saying about how thier daughters work so hard. friends should i be telling this to my husband. I am ready to do all work most of the days but only on days when I am tired I feel like crying out. My husband likes his mom very much and he cant hear my complaints abt her. He often says I am lucky to get her. So I am afraid to tell anything. Though my husband is nice and will help me in work I am afraid to ask his help on days when I am tired in front of my inlaws because of thier tradition. Y is that inlaws dont realise that I am also working at office and they dont say their son anything? What should I do???..