disappointed with gender

I am so glad I read all of the posts in your thread and read your latest post. I had started to cry thinking about your itty bitty baby girl, whose mother did not want her. I would jump with joy if I could have a girl (I have a precious son now). A few years back I would have given an arm, a leg, an eye, a ear to have a healthy baby - boy or girl.

As raji said, it may be your hormones that are taking you for a ride. Relax and enjoy your first pregnancy. Your sweetness incarnation will be in your arms in a little while. Just looking at her face, you will forget about all your life's disappointments. Her future and her life will be paramount.

I hope you realize how blessed you are that you are having a baby at all and that too, the best possible gift - a baby girl, a creator and mother incarnate. Welcome her into this world happily so that she may learn to love and respect herself, so that she may grow up secure, confident and healthy.

God bless you and your daughter!

 

luckyu wud addr u further so

am so happy and glad about the big positive change love u for that

wish u a very happy and a smooth delivery...
may god bless u and ur little angel with loads and loads of happiness...

love,
pavitra

 

RIDICULOUS THREAD! (despite the later "change of heart")
I am surprised IL-ites were patient with this user called 'unlucky', anyway absolutely ridiculous thread. There are folks yearning for a baby and these nonsensical threads arise. Wonder why such folks are blessed with babies, when so many struggle. Hate these threads.

 

Quite an Irony, unluckyme is blessed not only with one but two children well quite comfortably i shud say, and there are women trying to convince her that a girl baby is fine !!!!
The saying "to one his own woes are the greatest" is so true
unluckyme try to count ur blessings u'd know how lucky u r

 

Ho Dear
The same way I was thinking you reflected my points. Thanks dear.
kantha

 

Good Unlucky me..

That you realised it... We are here with nothing in our hand and struglling to get just a kid... It was so surprising to even see such kind of thread here...

YOu are lucky and God had blessed you.. Be Thankful to him....

If you still have any questions just go to the thread Fertlity and tryign to conceive.. Even 2 pages will be enough to realise what people go through......

 

spiderman,

please don't be judgemental about unluckyme (who is lucky now!).
All these thoughts have nothing to do with other women who haven't yet been able to conceive. Think about it- we do waste food sometimes... doesn't mean we dont' care about kids in Africa! One forms thoughts based on their own situation in life.
That being said, I don't justify her thoughts. On the other hand, put yourself in her shoes- Inlaws pressurizing for a boy, she being a girl having to help her mom secretively unlike her husband who can openly help his, pregnancy hormones, etc. It doesn't sound like she doesn't want the girl inside her, but just worried how the girl will face upto this world. ILites here were kind enough to make her understand that her baby will loveher to the core and grow up in a different generation with good leadership opportunities for women!

So please cheer her up and help her be positive:thumbsup

 

Wow..when I read that you didnt want your child just becoz of her gender,it really shook me.I was thinking how she will feel if she ever comes to know about her mothers thoughts of not wanting her at all...it was really heart wrenching..but I am so glad/relieved that your thoughts have changed now.I sincerely hope you dont change your attitude to the former one again and please love your child unconditionally.All the best to you and hope your delivery goes smoothly.Take care.

 

Hey Lucky)

Thats how we are going to call you .....happy to know that you have realised, keep it up till the end.

Now try to talk to your foetus with love....sure you will get a happy kick from her as a response)

I pray god to bless you with healthy baby and give enough strength to handle all the situation.

Enjoy your Pregnancy and Safe Delivery.

Takecare....Bye.

Waiting to see your cutiepie picture soon....