This platform has been very supportive for dealing my pregnancy and post delivery.Here I am for some other suggestions. Regarding my issue, I stay with my husband and toddler in California. I got a career break for 5 years and i am on H4-EAD. Now I got a job in michigan and its all positives about it.Its a full time , good package , H1 processing. For my work background, I got plenty opportunities in Michigan.So I am planning to take my daughter with me and my husband planning to visit once biweekly.Now the time has come to move and we are so depressed that we had taken a wrong decision.Staying away and that too east coast and west coast doesn't seem a good idea now. Please pour in your ideas if its a good decision or bad.If its a good decision please suggest ways how to survive alone with kid.that too in a very cold place which I have not been before in my life. Adding to this, I hardly get support from both parents. Has anyone managed going to a new place with kid???