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Difficult to bear the pain given by people

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Apr 27, 2010.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Our body suffers so much pains,once we get used to the pains then we are able to bear it. Body pains come due to our health problems. Whenever ladies undergo labour pain they will say next time I am not going to have a baby but again forgetting everything because carrying the baby in the womb is a very thrilling experience they again become ready to bear the pain of delivery.

    But thepains given by people are unbearable. Our heart pains with pain from our friends or relatives.
    We should have will power to bear such pains and havethe heart to forgive those people. But in this kaliyug the people who give pain to their dear ones or friends have to undergo pains themselves.
    Some people don’t like to take help from others but sometimes whether they like or not they have to give trouble to the person whom they thought should not trouble. In life we don’t know when we require anyone’s help so should be good with everyone and not hurt anyone’s feelings.
    When someone hurt us badly we are not able to forget that our whole life. Everytime we seem them we remember the time when they hurt us and don’t feel like being the same with them.
     
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    kelly1966 Platinum IL'ite

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    Viji...
    so simply said
    When someone hurt us badly we are not able to forget that our whole life. Everytime we seem them we remember the time when they hurt us and don’t feel like being the same with them.
    This is something I'm trying to overcome!!!
    They say its the best to forgive and forget but forgiveness is easier than forgetting... and that causes us more pain...
    Kerman
     
  3. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Kerman

    Thank you for your first fb . I am happy that atleast I got one fb.

    love
    viji
     
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    butterbaby Senior IL'ite

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    Dear Iyerviji,

    Wonderfully written dear. Very true.
    I believe what hurts the most is the pain given by our near & dear ones & close friends. The reason being, since we are so very attached to them, we are unable to anticipate that they would ever hurt us & on one final day when they do hurt us, it is unbearable. But it is because they love us so much. Its better to forgive & forget. In the same manner that God forgives us for every little error we commit on ths earth, in the same way, we too should forgive & forget.

    Have you ever noticed that in our difficult hours, its the strangers who first come to our rescue. I personally have experienced it. These strangers too are sent by God.
    Thats all I can say.

    "Live & Let Live".
    Take care

    Best Regards,
    Miss ButterBaby:coffee
     
  5. radsahana

    radsahana Silver IL'ite

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    dear viji mam

    i agree with you, it is difficult to behave same as nothing happened, if our near and dear ones had hurt us.

    However we may try, the incident reminds of the hurt that person inflicted on us. Yeah but surely we can try to forgive and forget, but that is also very very hard.
     
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    rajiravi Bronze IL'ite

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    Dear Viji aunty,

    very nice write up about the pains we go through in our life....Some pains we can bear and feel happy to bear that pain, like labour pain...but some pains we can never forget.......As radsahana mentioned, even if we try to forget, it keeps on reminded in the heart....nice one aunty....
     
  7. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Butterbaby

    Sorry for replying you late. Welcome to my thread and thank you for giving fb which is always a pleasure for me to receive. True we should forgive and forget but sometimes it is difficult.

    love
    viji


     
  8. iyerviji

    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Radha

    True it is difficult to forget though we can forgive that person. I have a bad experience on that. My close relative hurt my feelings too much . But God punishes those people. So we should not hurt anyone because dont know when we have to go through the same

    love
    viji


     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    Dear Raji

    Glad to see you here and agree with your message.

    love
    viji


     

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