Everyday.. She gets angry and is like “I want you to pass away”,” I hate you”..We are very careful with language and what she watches.have no idea how she started using these words.. She hates everything I cook and wants only school lunch She hates studying and it’s a Hercules task to make her finish one page homework.sometimes she is so stubborn,she will go without doing it. She hates swimming,dance,music.So I tried other things..she wants to quit right away.Nothing interests her. Starting from wake up time,brushing the teeth and getting her to dress up..it’s a struggle. My kid was stubborn and it was in control.Now, it’s beyond control. Timeouts or me being very stern works.However..that gets her even more riled up and she uses abusing words and is downright rude.I don’t give up but everyday is a struggle and she is only 6!! Is it a phase? How to tame a stubborn child??