Hi, I just like to know how to deal with inlaws specifically BIL. My bil lives with us and he basically controls some things. I never really understood his mentality. He influences on every specific thing in our life. My husbend loves him and he won't say single thing against him. He puts his hand on some personal things also like palnning kids. Once some topic came about kids and he immediately said why u have to hurry and just wait for 10 -12 years like that. I already waited 5years and here he makes such comments. He is a picky eater and whatever I make he says indirectly as we shoudn't eat more oil or more fat that means the food item is not good. I always somehow prepare which he likes and other one which my husbend likes.It is so difficult to make two different items for 3 people everyday. I don't know how I have to deal with this guy. He has been living with us for 2years and may be he is going to live for 2 more years untill he gets married. Please give me suggestions for: 1)How to handle this kind of mentality person? 2)How to lessen his interference in my personal things? 3)Sometimes he gives advices to me. So How I can reduce his "Bashan"(Long advices) to me? Thank you.