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Cure For Black Magic ?

Discussion in 'Religious places & Spiritual people' started by EagerForInfo, Sep 27, 2017.

  1. EagerForInfo

    EagerForInfo Bronze IL'ite

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    Help.

    I think my mother in law is going black magic or something. How do I stop it.

    Is there any cure for black magic. Every time my mother in law comes to our house which is in US my daughter gets sick Seriously. She stays sick till the time she comes back again. Then she says ohh ur daughter got sick cause she missed me.

    My sister in law's(husband sis) kids have cavities. When my mother in law came to our house I told her not to give my then 2 year old candy. But she didn't listen. I told her kids get cavities if they eat too much candy. And she said so what my sister in laws kids have cavities but still they eat candy. I said who has so many cavities. People don't have cavities maybe one or two in their life. She came to know neither me or my husband has any cavities. Immediately after she left my husband got a tooth pulled , 4 cavities and I myself have gotten cavities and my 2 year old got 13 cavities.

    She squeezed my newborn baby's head and it now has dents in it. I asked her how can he have this shape in a newborn babies head. She kept arguing there is nothing different with babies head and then she said my head is shaped that way too which is not. I said no my head does not have that shape. Next day my baby hit me with a toy and now my head has odd shape next to eyes too.

    She is controlling my life I tell u.
     
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  2. SunPa

    SunPa Platinum IL'ite

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    Why do you think your MIL hates your baby?

    A 2 year old baby's head is pretty strong, squeezing it cant cause dents without some serious damage to the skull.

    Cavities dont come overnight, they take months if not a year or two years before it can be bad enough to require attention.
    OP, I dont know anything about black magic. But thoughts especially fear has a lot of power. And your irrational fear could prove to be self fulfilling.

    Do go and see a counselor, he/she might be able to help you figure out your problem.
     
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  3. EagerForInfo

    EagerForInfo Bronze IL'ite

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    MIL came for my delivery. I have a 2-yr old daughter and a newborn baby boy who's head she was "massaging " even though I told her newborn baby's head is soft and one should not touch it so rashly numerous times.

    And yes cavities do not come overnight. But she argued that cavities are common and everyone gets them cause her own daughters kids have cavities and still eat candy all the time. My daughter got cavities 9 months after she left. No cavities till then. How can a 2 year old get so many cavities ??
     
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  4. silentlistener

    silentlistener Silver IL'ite

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    Do you believe really that your MIL is making things go wrong in your life, by black magic?
     
  5. DDream

    DDream Finest Post Winner

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    OP, I think only Cure For Black Magic is positive attitude.

    I think all those incidents might have happened even if MIL is not there.
    Life is quite unpredictable, there are so many things which we cannot control and can happen any time for no obvious reason.
     
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    ChennaiExpress IL Hall of Fame

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    I'm not sure if MIL is doing black magic, but definitely there are people who bring negativity into the lives of others. It's possible your MIL wishes ill for you.

    I'm really not sure what you can do other than extra strong prayers before, during, and after her visit.

    Maybe some purification puja.

    And I'm sure there is a scientific basis for this, rather than mere superstition.
     
  7. Cool44

    Cool44 Senior IL'ite

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    Daily you should recite skanda sasti kavacham. Or if you can't, then you can just listen to it daily, and worship Lord Murugan


    Regards,
     
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    Vedhavalli Finest Post Winner

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    Dear op,
    Definitely there are people who bring ill effects. But that's not black magic.
    Your MIL would be jealous/doesn't like your happy contented life, hence deep inside her heart, she wishes bad for you. That's how it's reflected on you.
    As many said develop a positive attitude, daily prayers would help you.
    I personally experienced with a person, whenever he visited myself and my kid would get ill. We would be having fever or stomach upset... First I too didn't believe, but after 4-5 times I believed it's because of him.
    I'm not going to let him stay more than a hour here after if at all he at he comes.
    Try avoiding her, to stay over 1 month or so.
    Always display/act that your not well, fatigue, dress dull, don't keep home too much spick n span, always complain about kids, house chores, stores, life.
    TC.
     
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    dollysonpari Silver IL'ite

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    Hi
    EagerForInfo:

    I can understand ur problem .. In-fact i'm undergoing similar issues with my MIL.. I have witnessed my mil collecting my hair and also all my dress is torn..( my mil cut cloth pieces from all the clothes i used to wear.. The most worst part is my mil is doing all these with my husband's support and she used to update related info with my husband .. Im not sure how she brain washed my husband to be-live black magic ... In-fact she has collected even my husband's cloths ... After her visit my even my 1.5 yr old kid used to behave very odd..

    Im not sure if this black magic is true or not.. But if something negative happens our mind starts doubting it might be true.. Because we need a solution to our problems.. nothing wrong in it..
    Just ignore comments from those who say just be practical and trying to reason out each and every incident to some practical life.. Though to some extent practical is true.. sometimes our problem forces our mind to belive in such things to come out of those problems..In such hard times Trust in GOD.. Only God can help us..


    As one of our IL suggested recite Kandha Sasthi Kavasam every day.. Hanuman Chalisa and try to keep the house clean and throw unwanted or un used things from home.. it will keep the negative energy away.. If you belive in feng shui keep a small fish tank at home .. it will help to relax the mind ...also try to search some remedy for black magic and slokas for black magic in youtube .. you will find some videos related to it.. If you wish you can try some of those remedies.. It will help to reduce the tension or stress created by mil.. Sometimes we girls are not lucky enough to get good mil ..
     
  10. nandinimithun

    nandinimithun IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi dear....

    First and foremost whether black magic exists or not, lets not get into that debate.....

    You start listening to soothing and positive music, hanuman chalisa, durga chalisa and shiv tandav.... Am sure listening to these will bring about lot of positivity within you....

    Your attitude is yours, keep improving that everyday and in every situation....
    Stay positive, it will help you and your child.....

    Above all, have immense faith in god....

    Wishing you good luck and am sure this phase will pass soon for you....

    Will keep you in my prayers.... May god bless you with a peaceful life always
     
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