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    chocolate Platinum IL'ite

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    OP, We have been here before. Every few weeks you come back and ask for help . You do nothing about it and come again. Your husband is dominant period. Have you done anything about it . Absolutely not. I think you can take one small step and go from there. We will be here. Until you do, its useless with you wording the same problem in a different angle.Good Luck.
     
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    Run away from your hubby ..and dont look back
     
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    It's sad but not complicated. Complicated would be if your husband had any redeeming qualities. Help yourself.
    If you want to study and become independent, 500 euros per sem is nothing. Sell some jewelry and make money or take loan from someone in india. It is less that 40,000 rupees. Even in India, only govt funded pgs are cheaper.

    If you don't want to study or work or start getting independent, nothing can be done. Only option is to return to India and depend on your parents.

    Do not get pregnant thinking that it would change him.

    You cannot change anybody. Change comes from within.
     
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    How? OK OK tie shoes and run.. but to where?
     
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    She has to find herself a way and make her financially independent and run away from this jerk ..he is not supporting her financially and torturing her emptionally then what is the use in being with him tolerating all these..i would also suggest her to file a divorce case and maintenence from him..then that jerk will have no other option other than supporting her financially..what a filthy idiot he is..
     

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