Code Language Between You And Your Dh

Akshaya, that's great that you both are still playing with balls and ringa ringa roses to keep the romance alive.

For us, there is only pet pooja and kids pooja after coming home from work. I get busy with cooking and next day prep and DH takes care of kids. Due to lack of time, we normally have straight up 1-1 talks whether it's for chores or anything else. DH takes forever to decipher code words so doesn't work for us. Silent treatment is reserved for In laws visit. I have 2 kids who can only play so much to keep themselves busy. For the most part, they are hovering around us . Times when we do get affectionate towards each other , they will be very curious to know " what you doing mom and dad"??

We do have special moments of exchanging roses (mostly from DH) but our days of rings and chains are long over. Sigh!

Please take our comments positively. I like the fact that you take so much initiative to keep the romance alive though it does sound dreamy.

 

OP, I liked the way you handled everyone’s questions here without losing your cool. Got to give that to you. You definitely have tact and ability to handle situations coolly. Now that is one of the ways to keep the peace at home and also indirectly fostering way to romance between couples (if not fostering at least not acting counter to any romance that may have a possibility of budding). Possibly that is one of the ways you stole your man’s heart by handling potentially flammable situations so well. Can’t say that for myself, so keep it up!

 

Thinking I might be hopeless something or just “hopeless” (no hope of changing whatsoever) maybe !

 

Haha that’s why I defined “hopeless” to indicate it can be used in a positive context. I did not want akshaya to throw that plate at me !

 

Oh yeah! She definitely falls on the positive side of it.
My definition was to understand me better

 

Positivity is not just a born trait, it can be acquired too. But needs effort. Can be started with things like respecting others, Stop ridiculing members with nicknames you like instead address them with their original handles etc etc, positivity starts building up slowly but steadily.

7 Ways to Practice Positivity and Optimism Every Day | HuffPost

 

As fun as it may sound to engage in, not accepting any flammable invitations to a fireworks party! Happy Saturday

 

Well handled Naari ! Who says you are not positive ?
P.S from quoting TOI to Huff post, that’s quite a progress ! There’s hope....
Happy Saturday