Hello All, I want to know, how frequently do u guys send gifts or money to ur SILs(India or U.S.A) and howthey demand? I mean they demand for any occasion or festivals or fun trips or shopping or education or investment... I have SIL, she is getting married in november...She is very very clever...My Dh is the sponsor of her education and marriage....My SIL got engaged 3months back... she has started thinking of her DH savings and she is worrying about their savings...My sil's dh also sends money to his parents( small amount of money) but he dnt have any resposibilities like us...She told me she willl buy all jewellery, sarees and dresses( extra ) at her marriage time only...after marriage she dnt wants to spend money for her shopping because she thinks her dh dnt have any savings....she dnt likes him to send the money to his parents too... She is not married now, she started thinking of her savings....what about me??????am I fool??????????and she spends all my money for shopping....dnt she think about her own brother???? she spends minimum 2000rs for a daily use dress ...she spends 3000rs on a perfume....but she told me after marriage she is not going to buy all these costly things....she dnt want to waste their money....how clever she is.....how can I handle her? now she is wasting my money... I have a question regarding her settlement....they want to settle down in india after her wedding....but If they do that, do we need to send more money to them comparatively in USA right? From a long time I cannt stop thinking about this issue...I am worrying about my SIL... they are not financially strong...for sure they will expect from us in future... So let me know, how frequently do u guys send gifts or money to ur SILs(India or U.S.A)..