I came across this article, Good Lovemaking Is About God | Desiring God Do you think it is true? It is hard to find people who think this way. People think p0rn is ok, people mistreat their wives during intimacy (snd then blame wife for not being superwoman) This article says that sex is bond between man and woman, through good time and bad, through youth and old age, through sickness and health. Humans are meant to have deeper pleasure, even more than bodily pleasure God made us with. Article says that God is greater than any of His gifts. This is hard for most humans to realize. You can even see in our religious texts, Humans have tunnel vision. I am interested in hearing from people in happy marriages and relationships. Or anyone else. tried asking this question to family (unable to fin anyone in happy relationship) but they think I am strange - one person thinks there is nothing wrong with p0rn. But it looks so mechanical and loveless. No one is even enjoying. - one person does not believe marriage means love, nor that marriage between man and wife helps bring one closer to God. Yet she claims to be Godly, religious woman. She had two grown kids (had love marriage in USA with Americans) and 5 grand kids.