How to deal with it? My husbands brother and his wife are never happy for us. I’m nearly 19 weeks pregnant and his wife is around 12 weeks. They told everyone in the group chat today. But when my husband told them I was pregnant too, they didn’t seem too excited but shocked initially. We didn’t get the same excitement we had for them. Not even a congratulations. I don’t know I’m happy for them and I prayed she’d get pregnant because she wanted a second child badly and was insecure. They also tried to hide it like she just found out at 6 weeks but certain things give away like she’s 12 weeks. I don’t understand the need to lie either. It’s not only in this...they’re always competing. Especially husbands brother. He has to prove his wife is better than me to put MIL. Even though I have nothing but good words for her.