Birds Of A Feather Flock Together

BIRDS OF A FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER:

My father had this saying show me your friends and I will tell yourcharacter, so he would guide explaining how to make good friends who could influence your life for the better.

In my experience the best are not good friendship material, just being friends with them is never going to pass on that gene of intelligence or will it, may be during the school and college days it is easier as live reference but their taste need not be so, another thing you need to have something to meet the other, like whether intellectually if you are below average it is definitely not going to give you friends from a better form, every time you make a move you need to see if the level is somewhere nearer to accept and give.

During my school days I had a kamala prabha who used to come first in class and I would love to be her friend, but then reality hits you and she is not going to accept except for a light hello and go away, sure that enlightenment needs to be worked at and not got through hi and hey. She is a gaenacologist today.

Friends need to be picked to have a mental rapport, and somewhere we pick the right ones who understand us and we are able to retaliate without excuses, to see agreement coming our way. My notion has never been show me your friends but we seek the one suitable without our knowledge and fall into place and make good ones, with whom you can be yourself, and I rather have one such soul rather than a great gathering and a great pomp with a large crowd. It is always birds of feather flock together…sunkan

 

you are quite right padma,

let me tell u something here, do you know once i make a friend and i ask the dob invarioubly it is the same no as me, and i find it funny how i am drawn to it, and for expectations dont we put up with so many people, in our life, opposite attract so even i have been a loner, all my life, with so many family responsibility and very private kinda person so did not make much friends but i love the intellectuals who can set me thinking after a conversation not the idle gossip of who ran away with whom kind, so very interested in computers for 35yrs now, and have seen different stages, love to feel that i have a window opened after a chat from a friend, that is the basic expectation many a time this does not happen, still we do seek and never rest until we have someone who would agree with whom you can relax, and more the twilight zone of life you want some like minded person not the putting up kind but some one with whom you can be you...sunkan

 

you are right suhan,
but then what to do can we have a conversation with people who may not understand you,when i mean intelligent i worded it wrong same wavelength would had been a better word..thanku for setting me right..sunkan