I spoke to one of my friends who went through a divorce and she said that it was very typical of the husband to deny the whole affair and it was even normal to tag her as a suspicious wife. Gauri, I am also trying to find proofs against him but I cannot find solid proofs to tag him. But I know for sure something is going on behind my back. One thing she and my mom said in common were - if he is really into EMA, he will surely leave a clue in the future, I just need to wait for it, until then, I lie low and prepare myself physically and mentally for the ensuing drama. She even said that in her case, the husband was absolutely guilt-free in the entire episode, which is the symptom that DH is displaying as well. He was not at all having any second thoughts about having the EMA. It did not at all end well for her. She did suggest going for a consultation with a legal person just to know what my options would be in case anything happens. Does anyone here know a good legal consultant in such matters in the bay area? Please suggest someone genuine considering my position here. I even tried to tail him without any success, I cannot spend more time, money and resources on him. In my position right now, every penny counts for me.