Dear OP, Looks like this man is desperate for sex or casual relationship rather than a serious relationship like marriage. Please pay some thoughts into the adultery matter in relation to his divorce case. Since you are also lone and desperate, you failed to sense his true colours it seems. Not your fault. But be careful the next time. He must have been looking for a casual sex from you; hence started this sex talk as soon as he interacted with you. Your licence to proceed here must have been provoked him to go further. Plus, such men could easily sense desperate and loan women too. He is a nice material for casual sex, if you are interested. But I am sure that you are not looking at that now. I don't think he is harmful, and could be threatening for your marital peace later on (should you marry someone else). It seems, he will not entertain any talks with you hereafter, since you have clearly told him your borders. Leave him. Look for some serious relationship, that suits you. Once it is confirmed, then entertain your marital rights, including sex. Because lone women like you are the latest targets for many men who likes casual sex. Given the Indian context where casual sex is not so common, they might attract you through love talks only.