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Discussion in 'Religious places & Spiritual people' started by paanzaa, Jan 14, 2012.

  1. insha

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    Hello Sir,

    I just read your posts here.Somehow I felt that I should reply.I understand that you are frustated.Everyone of us have some problems in life.So dont feel sad that you are struggling.

    All I want to say is you will definitely be in my prayers.i believe in MASS prayers.So when there are so many people praying for you,and your wife being a Sai devotee,definitely things will become good.Just remember even this phase will pass.

    My observation generally is that when somebody is having some problems and bad time,they generally start losing faith in God and start moving away from God.The fact that both you and your wife are praying so much ,means that you are blessed.So dont worry!
     
  2. paanzaa

    paanzaa Gold IL'ite

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    Thanks For the reply. Time for stock taking and introspection.
     
  3. Saisakthi

    Saisakthi IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Brother,

    Hope your health is fine and you are able to concentrate on other things, GuruPoornima Parayan, Requested Baba for getting you set right and do away with all your karma.

    Hope you are also doing Sai Satcharita Parayan in a slow phase, May Baba bless you to complete it with no difficulty.

    Starting a trip (pilgrimage) and will keep you in our prayers at all temples.

    Best wishes, Keep us updated.
     
  4. paanzaa

    paanzaa Gold IL'ite

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    Incidentally, it is a phase of belief and non-belief in a lot of things. I was taken by my friends to some saamiyadis and kuri josiyars who all were predicting some black magic and vasiyam and the astrological phase that was like a doomsday prediction. I had visited Palani on Tuesday last and offered a tonsure and prayed God, that all should set right as my self confidence was shattered by yet another rumor in the office of having a clandestine affair. I started crying in the office, itself as it involved a lady in my team. She refused to meet me as she had thought her prestige was at stake. Meanwhile, one of my very close friends had met my wife and asked for the reason of the break-up. He asked to meet me day before yesterday and I went and met him after visiting Baba in Thiruvedagam. I told him that the matter was very simple and all I wanted was my wife to look into the accounts and the lie which was told to her by her cousin's husband that I had admitted to the affair involving a lady in my wife's office. When people cross me and tell hundred lies and all believe it, my feeling was that I was a prisoner of circumstance and the power to free myself fails at every opportunity I need to talk to my family. I was barred from meeting my daughter earlier last week.

    I fail in keeping my silence at times, because of the emotions that run every day.
     
  5. Saisakthi

    Saisakthi IL Hall of Fame

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    Dear Brother,

    Hope things are taking shape in proving yourself and making her assumptions wrong on just hearsay mode.

    By Baba's grace and your directions visited Thiruvedagam SaiBaba temple and prayed especially for you since you belong to the territory. Offered prayers and said your son visits you regularly please be with him and sort out their issues and see them come to you united again. :thankyou2: for the directions to the temple.

    Attended evening aarthi on Sunday - 8th july, two young boys in their teens performed aarthi with dedication and being sunday there was crowd though the temple being in the outskrits.

    Well Wanted to visit Palani Murugan, but probably there was no call from him. Have you been reading Sai satcharitra, please do parayan if you havent started as yet.

    May Baba bless you and give you strength to stand up for yourself.
     
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    There was a call twice to Thiruvedagam. It was the start of the talks about my position by friends who are reconciling. Only time can tell when. I had been to Palani thrice- once on July 3rd for a tonsure, the next week and yesterday being Sasti and Tuesday...One answer came up immediately from my friend- who said that releasing the joint property in her name would ease situation to a bit. My wife was demanding police action on some silly pretext and citing harassment - the law is strong for women and I had the feeling-if not for my family-for whom? and I released the document in her name, though the time is not very conducive for her- my friend's advice is that release it, so that things would move fast. He being an astrologer of repute and saying that things will be alright.
    Lets see as it goes..


     
  7. Saisakthi

    Saisakthi IL Hall of Fame

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    Does she need some counselling, just think, because having lived for so many years with you if she does know who her husband is and just believe things around made me feel like this, Sorry if I am hurting you...
     
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    Dear Paanzaa Brother,

    May Baba bless you and sort out all issues in the family and make your family understand the pros and cons and let your home be filled with peace and bond of love and affection.

    Greetings to you on behalf of IL FAMILY and FRIENDS on RAKSHABANDAN,

    02nd Aug 2012 Paanzaa.jpg

    This Sacred thread is being tied on the virtual platform of IL family, Best wishes
     
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    She needs a huge amount of counseling. Nothing has been hidden from her. She knows that I have been truthful to her. The line of adamancy and the so called pride is thin..It is got to break.. Lets see.Thank you for the Rakshabandhan.
     
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    Dear Brother,

    Hope things are better than earlier, Hope Baba has helped you to meet your daughter, Be strong but calm, time will answer everything soon.

    Best wishes...
     
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