Driving through the over populated roads is what I hate the most. The travel time is more than one hour even though the distance between my house and office is 20 kilometers.The pollution, continuous honking, jammed roads, accidents, all of these disturbs me a lot and drives me crazy. There is no way I can avoid this travel. So I made up my mind yesterday evening to relax. I decided to enjoy my ride back home. I sat back looking out of the window to notice all the positive things around me. There were wonderful sights around me which brought a smile on my face. An elderly couple were walking hand in hand on the crowded road. The man so lovingly held the lady's hand and helped her cross the road. I kept staring at them till they were out of sight. It was a delightful scene and I fast forwarded my life and imagined me and my DH in their place. Wow! The drizzle lighted up my joyful mood. People on the road hurried to avoid drenching in rain. I saw an young man walking slowly. He carefully held an umbrella for the woman (seemed to be the man's mother) walking next to him. He was wet completely, but protected his mother from the rain. The simple sight touched my heart. I suddenly realized we were on the fly over and surrounded by vehicles. Our car was sandwiched between a bus and car. The kid in the car next to ours looked at me and gave a toothless smile. Now who will not fall for the beautiful innocent smile of a child. I spent my time on the fly over talking to the kid in our own sign language. I looked at the bus driver on the other side. He was waiting patiently for traffic to clear. I empathized with him. He probably spends majority of his life on the roads. There was no trace of complain on his face. And above all I have my tension free DH sitting next to me for the whole one or two hours. Do I need anything else? There is no Television or Laptop to compete with me. I looked at Mr.Cool sitting next to me and it brought a big grin on my face. I reached home after spending around two hours on road and it was not at all stressful for me. The reason was evident. I hope to enjoy my every day long rides as I did yesterday. There are umpteen things in our life which we cannot escape from. Can we at least give a try and learn to enjoy them?