we have been married for 4 months.my husband is a physically active person,he gets excited physically very soon. we have a good understanding of each other physically.we have intercourse around 3-4 times a week taking into consideration long office hours,tiredness,etc. just 1 month after marriage he complained and shouted at me that i dont satisfy him,dont go near him,keep running away and stuff..i was very hurt hearing that..we used to have intercourse 3-4 times a week.i was first time away from my home,i was down emotionally very much..i was feeling very lonely after marriage and probably that all made me not get intimate everyday. i knew him 2 years before marriage.he said that before marriage we thought we would have intercourse everyday but now it doesnt happen.he shouted me much that day. i convinced myself mentally and started to get settled with marriage.my husband is also very short tempered.he would shout whenever he gets angry.i started to be more intimate with him and enjoy.it was all going good. before marriage he used to surf internet a lot at nights and enjoy himself watching **** stuff. it was just 2.5 months to our marriage and i was shocked to see one night that my husband was watching videos on net.i was just sleeping besides him,i was not well as i was having my periods.this incident repeated around 3-4 times and he just seemed to really enjoy them. i was devastated realising this fact.i was so hurt and sad by the incident.i was afraid to talk to him about this as he is short tempered. i one day casually told him lets watch together some blue film.he told its not good to watch,whats the need to watch.he showed some bollywood movie scenes after i compelled.that time i thought when it comes to his physical need he likes it all and watches the whole night. but i couldnt tolerate after it happend 3-4 times.i told him that i saw him enjoying by himself.he said that he knows that.he didnt have any guilt feeling saying that directly to me.he said that '"i dont feel anything wrong about it.men cant control like women.Iwill do it whenever i want.it is good that atleast i m doing openly in front of you unlike other men who do it secretly."he was so casual while saying all this,no guilt feeling at all. i was so hurt that he didnt feel anything for me while doing or talking about it.still it hurts me when i think about that talk.i cant forget it forever. but giving consideration to our marriage and relationship,i again mentally coped up and tried to convince myself.i said to myself that he is a man,egoistic and might not change but i have to compromise and adjust to the situation.i started to be intimate with him as he likes and all wells ok now. but still there are few days when he is playing games on computer the whole night when i sleep.he is with the computer whole night.i feel like leaving the room when this happens.i dont think about it coz i get depressed and hurt. i dont know what to do.are all men like this? is this normal for a married man to watch **** stuff? what should i do?