Appreciation For The Fellow Ilites

Mistt · Jan 18, 2021

Got the notification of this nice thread then I read some of old posts again. It made me happy and Upset at the same time (how we forget someone who interacted with us once?). Few of users left, some of them are visiting IL rarely and may be a few on silent mode. Whatever IL was very lively in the past And I have been missing those lovely days. I hope IL becomes energetic again. I appreciate all Ilites for posting here which are helping and giving useful information to others in one way or another.

nuss · Jan 22, 2021

Novalis said: ↑

'Impressed' is the word I often use generously.

If there's someone in the forum who is the byword of my notion of the word, to be impressed thoroughly by them, each time they write something so thoughtfully, it's the same someone on whom my heart goes whoop at such intersection.

This thread is no trophy, just an assertion about fellow iLites by iLites. And when I am impressed with someone in that sighted flourish and stride, their mention here is consequential.

In the footsteps of Diogenes searching for an honest man, I am wide-eyed about representational women, the ones who symbolize the mythos and constitution of a woman readapting through times, unshakably romanticized (she must be the woman!) yet reinventing themselves (I am far better than your best imagination about woman) on their function in the society. They are representative of a new-age woman who regards vintage sensibilities while introducing progressive values. The only time I hate to resurrect the cliche east meets west retaining the charm of the nostalgia while adopting the prosperity of the ongoing.

Passionate about the growth of women, while being inspirational about the role of women.

Someone who transcends the social grievances with her optimism about situations.

I sense her as someone who rallies for parity in women, there is so much yet to achieve in the movement, yet insists on actionable opportunities with what is available right now.

Women could grumble forever about their situational disadvantage and languish or have the foresight to benefit from earlier stakes. A woman could paralyzingly cry out on how much yet is to be claimed for equality or she could lead herself with how much has already been done and march constructively in pride.

So, when I use 'impressed' on her, it is the contrast she brings in through her orientation to strive for fair growth while not discounting the shrinking gap between what a woman could aspire and what she could achieve, in a world abound with opportunities, in a system encouraging strong-willed women, and in a confluence where the east meets the west in a cosmopolitan validation.

I am happy to chance on such women who are representational of the current times where a woman is empowered unlike all her predecessors combined.

She is truly the impression of girl power in IL and I could not have been any less impressed with @nuss .
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@Novalis- Thank you for the appreciation! I am speechless! I am truly honored and humbled by this! Whenever I read your posts, I wish to take classes in literature. You have a way with words!

nuss · Jan 22, 2021

Viswamitra said: ↑

@Novalis,

Who can write better about the impression of girl power in IL than you? After reading your appreciation in your inimitable style, I went back and looked at the criteria I wrote when I started this thread.

What a choice @nuss is fitting all of the criteria above!
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Thank you @Viswamitra ji! There are so many ILites who have become role models and cheerleaders for me and you are definitely one of them!

Thinking about @Laks09 @yellowmango @MalStrom @Novalis @Rihana @Srama and many others who bring a different perspective to the issues. I learn new things every time I log on.

nuss · Jan 22, 2021

Rihana said: ↑

@sokanasanah Generous with his time. Focused and thoughtful responses that show the attention that went into composing them. For threads in any sub-forum of IL. Promises to come back with more if in a time-crunch, and always does that.

@kkrish - Has a big heart. A big big big heart. If I could emulate a small percentage of that grace and class, I would be eternally grateful from the bottom of my regular size heart. : )
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I agree with everything @Rihana said about @sokanasanah! His replies are always well-researched and full of wisdom.

nandinimithun · Jul 17, 2022

I remember showering appreciations on few ILs, i would like to extend my appreciation to the below ILs too.

1. Dear @anika987 : her posts are relatable, i can always connect with them and i find her like a girl next door, and a childhood friend.

2. Dear @SGBV : she is the epitome of strength, vulnerability, expression, fear, courage, freedom and she is everything that i look upto and she keeps inspiring, motivating and encouraging simpletons like me.

I am unable to tag others.

Dear @ viji aunty, a lovely human being and an encyclopedia, more to learn from her simplicity

Dear @vishwamitra sir, the amazing and in depth writing about mind, soul, and everything about that, thank you for silently inspiring me to start the self enquiry and ask myself Who Am I.

Dear @ Rihana, what is so enthralling about you and what is so interesting and lovely about you.

Dear Thyagarajan sir, the way you reply to posts and the way you encourage everyone.

Viswamitra · Jul 17, 2022

nandinimithun said: ↑

I remember showering appreciations on few ILs, i would like to extend my appreciation to the below ILs too.

1. Dear @anika987 : her posts are relatable, i can always connect with them and i find her like a girl next door, and a childhood friend.

2. Dear @SGBV : she is the epitome of strength, vulnerability, expression, fear, courage, freedom and she is everything that i look upto and she keeps inspiring, motivating and encouraging simpletons like me.

I am unable to tag others.

Dear @ viji aunty, a lovely human being and an encyclopedia, more to learn from her simplicity

Dear @vishwamitra sir, the amazing and in depth writing about mind, soul, and everything about that, thank you for silently inspiring me to start the self enquiry and ask myself Who Am I.

Dear @ Rihana, what is so enthralling about you and what is so interesting and lovely about you.

Dear Thyagarajan sir, the way you reply to posts and the way you encourage everyone.
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@nandinimithun,

Thank you for sharing your invaluable suggestions here about the fellow ILites.

What can I say about @anika987? She starts threads on subjects no one thought off and gets the highest possible responses from many ILites. Her responses to other threads are extremely sound and practical. She is a phenomenon.

@SGBV is a remarkable person with stunning career everyone would like to emulate and handles her life so beautifully whether it is sailing smoothly or in the rough weather. She makes informed decisions and her responses to threads are oustanding. She is definitely a role model for many.

@Rihana is an extremely independent thinker and can come up with things that no one thinks of. She is practical in her approach and her responses to those who seek advice are exceptional. When IL decided to appoint her as a judge for selecting the best nominated posts every month, I was so happy. Who else is better suited for this coveted position? I enjoy reading her start of the month posts seeking nomination. Only regret I have is she could not write more threads of her own.

@iyerviji (Vijiakka) is a guiding spirit and a great role model having led such an exception life herself. She has achieved things no one can even attempt to reach yet extremely humble.

@Thyagarajan Sir is an exceptional writer and his responses to other threads listing his ideas are invaluable. He is a great additionl to IL writers and I wish he finds more time to write some more interesting threads.

SGBV · Jul 17, 2022

@nandinimithun dear & @Viswamitra sir,

Thank you so much for the good words & appreciation. I am so touched.

Everyone in IL family keeps on inspiring me some or the other way. @anika987's simplicity, @Rihana's wisdom, @Laks09's compassion, @1Sandhya's empathy and advises, @nuss's brilliance @yellowmango's empowerment and senior people like @Viswamitra sir's fatherly touch in his advice always make me learn a new thing here.

There are many lites, who constantly checks about my well-being, and appreciate me for being who I am. You guys make me so happy here.

IL has been my secret family, the go to place and the only place where I am being myself without any make-up/cover.

nandinimithun · Jul 17, 2022

SGBV said: ↑

@nandinimithun dear & @Viswamitra sir,

Thank you so much for the good words & appreciation. I am so touched.

Everyone in IL family keeps on inspiring me some or the other way. @anika987's simplicity, @Rihana's wisdom, @Laks09's compassion, @1Sandhya's empathy and advises, @nuss's brilliance @yellowmango's empowerment and senior people like @Viswamitra sir's fatherly touch in his advice always make me learn a new thing here.

There are many lites, who constantly checks about my well-being, and appreciate me for being who I am. You guys make me so happy here.

IL has been my secret family, the go to place and the only place where I am being myself without any make-up/cover.
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See, it these raw unfiltered and honest words which makes me appreciate and look upto you....
May you always be blessed with good health and peace of mind

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